[ SECRET POST #170 ]

[grayout.livejournal.com]

⌈ Secret Post #170 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[queenie-z.livejournal.com]

5. Holy crap, I'm listening to that song right now. o_o;;

21. I had an internet boyfriend (lol, big mistake) who decided to lie to me about who he was. One day, after telling me that he was a straight Catholic, he was all "oh by the way, I'm a bisexual Buddhist lololol" and I dumped him for being dishonest to me. But since then I've sworn off bisexual guys for that very reason - I'm not gonna take it well if my SO decides to run off with someone else, and if the pickings are doubled there's gonna be more of a chance of that happening.

Yeah, I'm way too scared of getting hurt. So sue me.

[(Anonymous)]

...No. They're not doubled. There are dishonest bisexuals and there are faithful bisexuals, and just because someone has the potential to be attracted to both sexes doesn't necessarily mean they're attracted to more people. There are some really picky bisexuals who are attracted to a small amount of people only and some straight/gay people who are attracted to a lot of different people.

Besides, a straight/gay person can lie, too.

[failaga.livejournal.com]

Uuh uuuh uuh

>>I'm not gonna take it well if my SO decides to run off with someone else, and if the pickings are doubled there's gonna be more of a chance of that happening.<<

... You know, being bisexual doesn't mean someone is going to take advantage of that fact? I mean if someone genuinely cares for you then you should be able to trust them? And just because there are in theory more people they can be attracted to doesn't mean they're going to run off, if it's you they want to be with?

[failaga.livejournal.com]

TheotherpostwasnttherewhenIwenttopostsorry

[good-odds.livejournal.com]

So much word.

[queenie-z.livejournal.com]

... You know, being bisexual doesn't mean someone is going to take advantage of that fact? I mean if someone genuinely cares for you then you should be able to trust them? And just because there are in theory more people they can be attracted to doesn't mean they're going to run off, if it's you they want to be with?

That's assuming the best of people.

[failaga.livejournal.com]

Ok, so I know paranoia is a dangerous thing and it makes you feel better but SERIOUSLY. I mostly assume the best of people until proven wrong, and so it sucks when people turn out to not be worth it but I think I'm way happier than people who think everyone is out to betray them. If you can't trust someone you're hurting them just as much. Nobody WANTS to be with someone who can't even trust them.

[failaga.livejournal.com]

If it makes you feel better. Or something.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

Uhhhh so how many straight guys are willing to sleep with any girl that wants to? Tell me you at least distrust them as much.

[queenie-z.livejournal.com]

You'd be surprised at how much everyone scares me. I even push away straight guys who've said "I love you" because they didn't mean it.

[queenie-z.livejournal.com]

And I really wish I could trust people somehow.

[longlongwaytogo.livejournal.com]

So would you not go out with a good looking person, or someone who has lots of friends of the opposite sex, (if they're straight)?

[pretentioustfu.livejournal.com]

One day, after telling me that he was a straight Catholic, he was all "oh by the way, I'm a bisexual Buddhist lololol" and I dumped him for being dishonest to me.

*SNERK* Would your internet boyfriend also happen to be 40 this year, a resident of Japan, and a famous mangaka? ~_^ j/k j/k and I'm sorry for making light of your situation, but I'm giggling at the image this is giving me. A lot. Unhealthily. *falls over and dies*

[queenie-z.livejournal.com]

Well, I mean, mathematically speaking, let's say there's a group in which Girl 1 and Boy 1 are dating, and there are 5 other girls and 5 other boys. Now, if Boy 1 is straight, he only has 5 people he could choose to leave Girl 1 for. However, if Boy 1 is bisexual, he has 10 people he could choose. Basically, the selection pool has doubled, meaning that there's more of a likelihood he'll find someone else he wants, and more of a chance that Girl 1 will be hurt.

[moebot.livejournal.com]

If you're so excessively paranoid of your partner and everyone else around you to the point where this would even be an issue, I've got to say that you're probably not ready for a relationship.

[queenie-z.livejournal.com]

I know that.

I can't trust that people who say "I love you" actually mean it.

[moebot.livejournal.com]

Well good for you. That doesn't make your statements any less silly.

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

Looking at this mathematically is essentially flawed. Attraction and romance is more complicated than that. And even if it's as straight as you're making it out to be, five other people is still a temptation.

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

21. What does being gay/straight/bi have to do with being a jerk?

[queenie-z.livejournal.com]

Not with being a jerk; there's just more temptation out there for bisexuals. I have a more detailed explanation up there. ^^^

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

Er. No.

I am bisexual. I am no attracted to every man and woman on earth. If you're straight, do you find every man you see hot?

[queenie-z.livejournal.com]

Nevermind, I'm probobly just excessivly paranoid like you all say.

[longlongwaytogo.livejournal.com]

so you're saying people will automatically cheat, if they're in love?

[(Anonymous)]

21. Um, no. That's actually rather insulting.