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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-10-25 07:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #1757 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1757 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 119 secrets from Secret Submission Post #.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 1 2 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2011-10-26 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Why hello fetish I had no clue existed until tonight.

I'm pretty sure the skullfucking fic was written to be shocking more than it was written to get people off. But there is so much kink-shaming - fandom likes to tell itself it's open and accepting of all weirdnesses and perversions and it really, really isn't. If you like 'mainstream' kink, you're fine, you're among friends. If you like anything truly weird, you're a sicko, and we don't want to see that in our archive/community/kinkmeme! Eeew!

*frustrated kinky anon is frustrated*

(Anonymous) 2011-10-26 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed, Anon, I hate that any kink outside of the ~mainstream ones are frowned upon. I have a lot of kinks that people would cause people to do some major side-eying at me if they found out, and it makes me sad. :(

I've always been of the mindset that as long as you're not doing anyone (or anything) any non-consensual harm, then have whatever kinks you like.

[identity profile] weekendoffender.livejournal.com 2011-10-26 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
Yep yep yep. I don't do much but read on kink memes because what I want to request aren't 'approved' kinks. I mean sure, I like spanking but there's already 100 prompts with that same request!

(Anonymous) 2011-10-26 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
The weirdest thing is how kinks become 'mainstream'. Like maybe five, six years ago, if you requested knotting fic there'd probably be only a scant few people who knew what you were talking about and there'd be a whole lot of kink shaming from everyone else. And now it's everywhere. (Disclaimer: Not kink-shaming knotting, just fascinated by the way it's become as much a meme staple as spanking and bondage.)

I think kink memes in general go through trends, and kinks you'd think would be too specialised or too conflicting with canon ideals become huge. Like the huge number of cutesy gore pics and fics for Kurt/Blaine. I was genuinely surprised to find out it was so popular.

(Anonymous) 2011-10-26 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
I think the weirdest part is what exactly has become mainstream. When have you ever heard of mpreg as a kink outside of fandom? But in the last week, people have freaked out over bestiality on this comm, generally defended necrophilia, and decried Nazi-fetishization, all of which I've actually seen porn for in the real world (okay, not necrophilia, but if I were to mention it to people they would know what the hell it is).

Also, what do you want to bet that had this exact secret been posted w/o the last bit about "why is my kink not as acceptable as yours?" that people would have gone nuts over how wrong it is? My kink is not your kink is the magical way to get discourse instead of judgement.

(Anonymous) 2011-10-28 11:39 am (UTC)(link)
You've never seen Kissed, have you, nonny?

(Anonymous) 2011-10-26 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
http://kinkkinkmeme.livejournal.com/ has sprung up in hopes of providing a safe place for rare kink.

(Anonymous) 2011-10-26 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
There's a new (by which I mean, was created last week) multifandom rare-kink kinkmeme; here's the link: http://kinkkinkmeme.livejournal.com/412.html

[identity profile] citrinesunset.livejournal.com 2011-10-26 04:29 am (UTC)(link)
I think even with "mainstream" kinks, there are varying limits to what people are generally comfortable writing/reading. That's something that frustrates me sometimes -- most of my kinks are fairly mainstream in that they probably wouldn't raise any eyebrows on a kink meme, but I get the feeling that the way I like to write/read those kinks has a different tone and level than what is popular and well-liked.

(Anonymous) 2011-10-26 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
This comment x 10000000.

I have to write my ~real kink fic under a pseudonym because it draws so much hate when as far as I'm aware, it's a pretty common one. More power to the vore op or whatever the frig they want.