[ SECRET POST #1763 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1763 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Somebody's been spamming the submissions post with old secrets, apparently (for what actual purpose, I'm not sure). Just give me a heads up and I'll take the repeats down.

Secrets Left to Post: 08 pages, 200 secrets from Secret Submission Post #252.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - omgiknowthem ], [ 1 2 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: NF

[mutantjules.livejournal.com]

....really?

If you truly must, you could just say to her "dude, you're my friend, and because of this I have to say I kinda think you're an idiot for smoking." She'd probably say something like "I like smoking. I know the effects. You're not my mom and I'll do what I want, thanks" and I'm assuming you'd say something like "I know" or "okay" and then it would never come up again

(not being her mom or her doctor, you could always just keep your opinion to yourself, but hey. Hell, maybe she'd say something like "I know. It's stupid. I'm working on cutting down with a mind to quit soon but I could use some help with keeping on track. Wanna motivate me?" My point is, you can definitely BE A GIRL'S FRIEND even though she smokes =/)

Re: NF

[countess-k.livejournal.com]

I know but it's more complicated than that. She KNOWS it's bad for her but she acts like she has it under control, that she's only smoking a few and at parties, that it doesn't have an effect on her (even though she lost her voice and couldn't stop coughing at one occasion. And her only concern was...she couldn't have another cigarette.) I just can't stand how she's fooling herself while doing harm to her body. Every time she lights up a cigarette and claims it's her first/only one I want to tell her to stop and realize what she's doing.

Re: NF

[megalomaniageek.livejournal.com]

That does sound like a more reasonable issue, although it seems to be more the insufferable denial rather than the smoking itself.

Re: NF

[(Anonymous)]

Are you serious, you're having trouble being her friend because it bothers you that YOU'RE SO RIGHT and SHE'S SO WRONG and ugh she's HURTING herself, I know better!

Look, its good to be concerned about a friend and to criticize their habits once or twice, but then you leave it be - unless you think it would be fair for them to harass you every time you order french fries because omg you know how bad they are and you're totally in denial about how many you eat.

What I'm saying is, unless its fair game to start picking on everyone's bad unhealthy habits and trying to control them and tell them how they could live their lives better/healthier, then drop it. She knows that cigarette is bad like she knows chocolate cake is bad, but she's an adult and can eat the damn cake if she wants.

Re: NF

[(Anonymous)]

WTF, chocolate cake is not bad! WTF man. What you fucking got against chocolate cake?

Re: NF

[(Anonymous)]

ditto this, bitches.

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[(Anonymous)]

Last I heard, chocolate cake didn't give you cancer, didn't give the people around you cancer, and didn't make you stink.

Re: NF

[(Anonymous)]

yeah, basically this. Friends and relatives will *always* be doing things that you think (or even know) are stupid, but if you just abandon them every time it happens, you're the one who will end up lonely. Smoking isn't any more destructive than heavy drinking, but I'm still friends with my friends who drink a lot.