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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-11-03 07:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #1766 ]


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(Anonymous) 2011-11-04 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
...If she loves you, she wouldn't abuse you.

[identity profile] forthefluff.livejournal.com 2011-11-04 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
while I don't AT ALL condone or excuse the anon's mother's actions, I don't know if we can really say that, dude.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-04 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
you can love someone and still abuse them

sad but true

[identity profile] urplesquirrel.livejournal.com 2011-11-04 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
There is no such thing as a mother-daughter relationship that is not at least slightly emotionally abusive. Seriously. The power imbalance between mother and child makes it impossible.

My mother loves me with all of her heart. She is also passive-aggressive, controlling, and hard to live with. Healthy relationship? Not completely. Loving? Yes.

[identity profile] forthefluff.livejournal.com 2011-11-04 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
There is no such thing as a mother-daughter relationship that is not at least slightly emotionally abusive.

Whoa now, I don't know if I agree with that either. None of my psychology textbooks have ever said anything like that, anyway. (...Besides Freud, maybe.)

(Anonymous) 2011-11-04 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

i used to think that when i was 10 but i've grown to accept that this is just the way my parents are. being passive-aggressive and trying to impose their decisions on me doesn't mean they aren't saying those things out of spite. for others that might be the case, but i'm only speaking for my parents, who say a lot of the same things that gothel said out of genuine love and concern and without any ulterior motives.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-04 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
oops

doesn't mean that they ARE** saying those things out of spite