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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-11-12 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #1775 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1775 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[identity profile] haleysings.livejournal.com 2011-11-12 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
It seems like if you trusted someone enough to want to spend the rest of your life with them, you shouldn't really keep secrets from them. Particularly secrets that are this trivial.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-12 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)
'Secrets' is such a dramatic word. Even married people are entitled to a bit of privacy from each other.

[identity profile] haleysings.livejournal.com 2011-11-12 09:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess. Maybe I'm just too much of a nerd to even relate to this secret, I don't think anyone's ever even wondered if I'm active in fandom after they've known me for a little bit.

Plus, I can't help but remember that secret where someone scribbled some fanfic onto a piece of scrap paper, kept it in their pocket, and then when their SO saw it they grabbed it before they could read it and actually lied and said it was a negative note about their SO rather than tell them it was fanfic. I don't know, it just seems silly to me.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-12 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Actively lying when confronted is an entirely different issue than just not having said anything. Not everybody feels compelled to share every detail of their lives with other people.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2011-11-13 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
Man, this. Just because you're 'in love' doesn't mean you don't get to have stuff that's just yours anymore. I hate that whole 'i never do anything without them!!' 'trope' of the perfect marriage.

Trust me, twenty years in? You'll be begging for a golf habit or a monthly fishing trip or something.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-13 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
Eh, "never doing anything without them" is NOT the same. My husband was well aware of my fandom habits, and he's never dipped a toe in it.

Obviously fandom is important enough to OP to worry and make a secret about it. Which suggests that it might be a serious and sad hassle to keep it from their SO for an indefinite amount of time.