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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-11-19 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #1782 ]

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[identity profile] frostoria.livejournal.com 2011-11-20 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
I can believe the no prep part, because if they have anal sex fairly regularly, they probably won't be tight enough to need the 'one finger, two fingers, scissoring' treatment. Lube though, I have a hard time believing anal would be comfortable without it. I just generally handwave that and choose to believe the lubing happened off-screen.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-20 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Saying it as someone who has anal sex basically every day, it's not like that (I mean, it may be for some people, but that's not a rule that applies to everyone). And by "that" I don't only mean the lube, but also the being tight part. You know, even having anal regularly, you don't need to get stretched. I'm as tight as a virgin, it never changed anything and I rarely use lube (I hate it, in fact). Preparation is just for fun, to me, and lube is a pain in the ass, no pun intended.

So... No. It doesn't needs to be like that. Anal sex doesn't needs to hurt like a motherfucker without lube or preparation, but it can happen. And it doesn't has anything to do with being tight or not, experienced or not. It varies from person to person.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-20 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
Can you have rough anal with no lube/prep though?

(Anonymous) 2011-11-21 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, pretty much always. I have to admit sometimes, especially if I do it a lot, it obviously gets sore and I have to slow down a little (or use lube, ugh). But I'm not into delicate or calm sex and it's really no big deal doing it without prep/lube. As I said, "preparation" is just for fun and tease, and lube only when I can't avoid it. But that's just me, I realize there's many people who wouldn't like it (just sharing so OP understands it's definitely not impossible, and it can be very pleasing for some people).

(Anonymous) 2011-11-21 05:19 am (UTC)(link)
Different person than the anon you're replying too, and I say definitely possibly yes.

I like my fucking rough, whether anal or vaginal. I like that sense of urgency, that DO IT NOW NOW NOW thing. Anal? Definitely possible, but I do like a little bit of lube some of the time, if it's going to be hard and fast, and I'll communicate that to my partner as best I can, even in my most incoherent fuck-me-now mode. BUT. I usually don't need commercial slimy goop, nor do I need an elaborate finger-dance. Spit is perfectly adequate in a pinch; a few minutes of rimming is my favorite;cooking oil also works perfectly well if we're near the kitchen. Little bit of that, and I'm fine for the banging. And I don't even have a prostate--I bet if I did I'd be even less picky.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-21 05:08 am (UTC)(link)
How "tight" you are has nothing to do with how many times you've been penetrated. (anally or vaginally). Both the vagina and the anus are orifices full of muscles, and as with all muscles, training makes a difference, but so do genetics. Some people are "tighter" than others by sheer force of physical build. Some learn to control their muscles.

Orifices do not get "stretched out" by intercourse, that's a myth. If it were true, any woman who's ever given birth would be utterly unmoved by any penis for the rest of her life afterward, and anyone who likes anal would, not to put too fine a point on it, be shitting her/his pants all the time.

Learning muscle control and how and when to tighten and relax in a sexual way is possible and good, though. Very good. :D