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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-11-24 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #1787 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1787 ⌋


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 40 secrets from Secret Submission Post #255.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] relmneiko.livejournal.com 2011-11-24 09:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Generally people like fic to represent real experiences to a degree. Why are you getting your panties in a twist because someone compared fic sex to real-life sex?

(Anonymous) 2011-11-24 09:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Uh, no. Judging just by all the complaining that goes on around here, most people don't like realistic fic at all. Hence the complaining by the enlightened folks who frequent fandomsecrets.

[identity profile] relmneiko.livejournal.com 2011-11-24 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
"represent real experiences to a degree".... does not necessarily mean flat-out realistic. The smut I read/write certainly isn't 100% realistic. I think, though, that most of the smut I've read has some dialogue during sex, which indicates that most people seem to prefer it because it is realistic and IC for characters to do.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-24 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Somene? Try most people in this thread taking the secret as an affront and criticism on how THEY like to have sex in real life.

And then being oh so mature and going, ~you sound like a virgin (who can't drive).

Seriously?

Get over yourselves, too, please.

[identity profile] relmneiko.livejournal.com 2011-11-24 09:53 pm (UTC)(link)
...you are taking this way too personally. I have no idea how you pulled that accusatory tone out of the comment I was defending, and I certainly never said anything of the sort myself.

[identity profile] frostoria.livejournal.com 2011-11-25 09:13 am (UTC)(link)
The comment you're defending included stuff like Have you ever had sex? and So uh, good for you for hating it when people talk during an intimate act?

That kinda sounds condescending to me. It's not so much they compared real to fictional life, but the fact that they expect everyone else's experience to mirror theirs and dismiss anything else as wrong or born out of ignorance.