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fandomsecrets2011-12-05 07:52 pm
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(Anonymous) 2011-12-06 01:38 am (UTC)(link)I could relate to their situation and sympathize with both sides of it, but not to them as people, or even as characters.
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But I think if he wants to make an effort to have some sort of relationship with his daughter, then he has the right too. Bella might have been a brat, but if she didn't want to reciprocate his feelings because she doesn't feel close to him or have any desire to start a father-daughter bond, than that's her choice. Charlie still has the right to try though.
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(Anonymous) 2011-12-06 02:21 am (UTC)(link)no subject
I think it's also hard to be a good father when your daughter hasn't wanted anything to do with you until her mom remarried.
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And as for her Mom, she's portrayed as being so hopeless she can't do aaaaanything without her husband or Bella around from what I've seen, so. Why WOULD people care about her?
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(Anonymous) 2011-12-06 05:20 am (UTC)(link)Twilight cast:
Bella, she's portrayed as being so hopeless she can't do aaaaanything without her boyfriend Edward or Jacob around from what I've seen, so. Why WOULD people care about her?
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(Anonymous) 2011-12-06 04:23 am (UTC)(link)no subject
It's been ages since I've read the books but I'm pretty sure Bella visited her father every summer (which is a pretty normal situation for kids who have divorced parents that live a good distance apart). And I'm pretty sure he called her every so often to see how she was doing. So she had absolutely NO excuse to treat Charlie like a douchebag. If she wanted to be with him she could have stayed with him in Forks. Since she OBVIOUSLY didn't want to spend any time with her Dad, I think it's pretty unfair to put all the blame on Charlie who was doing his best.
Hell yes I sympathize with Charlie. And hell yes I think that Bella Swan is a spoiled, arrogant, two-faced bitch-of-a-daughter.
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(Anonymous) 2011-12-06 09:54 am (UTC)(link)Yeah, least of them Bella herself.
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(Anonymous) 2011-12-06 11:47 am (UTC)(link)I like Burke's portrayal for the most part, but yeah, he does make Charlie look a lot more nicer than he should be.
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Renee was so hopeless that Bella had to look after her and was actually rearranging her life for her mother's benefit. Bella spent quite a bit of time with Charlie before she and Edward got close and a fair amount afterward; she took over more than her share of the housework and cooking. There was a whole lot of parent-child role reversal on both sides and it's part of how Bella got so screwed up. Also I find it incredibly skeevy how Charlie and Billy Black were trying to push Bella into a relationship with Jacob, the Nice Guy (tm) who couldn't be satisfied with friendship even after Bella pointed out that since she had known him since they were little, she thought of him as a sibling.
I like all the characters relatively well, but none of them are even remotely perfect or healthy or sensible.
Which is okay.
Who expects HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP AND FAMILIAL ROLE MODELS out of a VAMPIRE NOVEL?
Vampire novels are about screwed-up relationships, weird sexual metaphors, power differentials that will always be to the human's detriment (even a 45 year old female CEO doesn't have the kind of wealth or life experience a vampire over 100 has) and purple prose! Either you like that kind of thing or you don't. I do. I don't pretend it's great lit but it is hella entertaining.
Vampire novels, even for teenagers, are never going to be healthy relationship role model books, because a) that's not what people who read vampire novels want out of them and b) an emotionally healthy, sensible person would probably run like hell from every fictional vampire ever, be it Varney, Dracula, Lestat, Nothing, Zillah, Louis, Bill Compton, Eric Northman, Spike, Angel, St Germain, Barnabas Collins, Damon and Stefan...and Edward Cullen. If you like vampires you just kind of have to accept that there will be creepy shit going down.