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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-12-18 03:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #1811 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1811 ⌋


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[identity profile] streetcake.livejournal.com 2011-12-19 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
For me it's not really the crying that's a problem, but what they do after they cry.

If they just cry and cry till someone forces them to do something proactive and it's always like that, then it's the sign of a weak character. That can make it problematic depending what role said character plays.

If they cry all the time but still manage to move forward and pick themselves up then it's fine. It's a good way to release stress and there's no need to bottle negative feelings up.

Unfortunately, people just think of crying as being weak no matter what, which is a shame. I think it can be a strength sometimes, if it means being honest and confronting your emotions rather than hiding them.