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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-12-22 07:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #1815 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1815 ⌋


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[identity profile] captain-emily.livejournal.com 2011-12-23 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
It's possible to be turned on by same sex pairings without being bi or homosexual. Then again, it could just as easily be that you are, too.

If you want to have sex with your boyfriend and are attracted to him, go for it. But if this is something that really bothers you, maybe you could talk to him about it?

Honestly, I was raised strictly Southern Baptist and the idea that I might not be 100% straight didn't even occur to me until I was already married. (And let me tell you, that was 37 flavors of awkward.) However, my husband was very understanding and let me "explore" a bit, and I realized that I was bi.

So if you're happy with your boyfriend, I wouldn't do anything drastic. You might try talking to him, if you want. He might be able to talk you through your feelings or offer an outsider's perspective. And if, for some reason, you find yourself single again and you're still questioning, perhaps you could try dating a woman and see how you feel about it.