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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-06 07:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #1830 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1830 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Masterchef Australia]


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[Grimm]


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[Cracked.com]


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[Stargate Universe]


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[Skulduggery Pleasant]


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[Young Justice]


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[Chobits]


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[Sailor Moon, Howard Stern]


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[The Wonder Years/How I Met Your Mother]


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[Community]


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[Homestuck]


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[Nutcracker, Motion Picture]


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[David Archuleta]


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[Love Actually]


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[itskingsleybitch]


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[FFVII]


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[Shake it Up/Bones]


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[Sherlock Series 1]


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[Pokemon]


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[Hatoful Boyfriend]


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[Wonder Woman]


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[James Deen]


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[The Iron Giant]


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[Code Geass]


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[Code Geass]


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[Code Geass]


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[Code Geass]


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32. [SPOILERS for Dead Rising 2: Off The Record]



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33. [SPOILERS for Skyrim]



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34. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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35. [TRIGGER WARNING for mentions of rape]



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36. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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37. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #261.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-07 04:49 am (UTC)(link)
I have rape fantasies and I've role-played rape with boyfriends. What I always found interesting was that my rape fantasies feel like the opposite of rape. If I'm playing out a fantasy with a man, I tell him what I want him to do, what he's not allowed to do, what turns me on, what doesn't do it for me, what my safe word is, etc. Sometimes I even tell him very specific ways to move his body and when he's allowed to finish. And someone who's my boyfriend doesn't actually want to rape me or anyone else. It's just a power game. Real rape isn't a game, and of course, everyone knows that. In the game, I'm the "victim", but in reality, I'm in total control. So having rape fantasies doesn't make me feel guilty about anything concerning rape, because it's nothing like rape.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-07 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, just... Thank you. This I needed to hear. I'll be mulling over the power and control dynamic issues for a bit.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-07 04:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry for sounding dumb, but if you tell him everything he's allowed to do and even you have to allow him to finish it doesn't sound much like a rape roleplay to me anymore. It just sounds like rough sex and even a bit like femdom.

I always thought rape roleplay involved a certain situation/scenario and a safe word and that was it. Because, well, if you know what's coming to you how can it turn you on as a "rape" fantasy?

(Anonymous) 2012-01-07 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Not the original Anon:
Some people like to script out their fantasies more thoroughly than others, that doesn't mean
their fantasies are less fun for them. It's a personal choice. Also, telling him what he is and isn't allowed to do doesn't mean that he'll do everything on the allowed list or that you know exactly what's coming when.

It's like acting in a play. Just because the scene is scripted doesn't mean it looks like rough sex.

There's all sorts of stuff you could script in that wouldn't shouldn't show up in rough without discussion: running away, fighting, begging, the actual pretending to be in certain roles ect.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-07 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
THIS.

It's actually nothing but a power game.