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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-08 04:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #1832 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1832 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2012-01-08 09:37 pm (UTC)(link)
That's right, blame the victim...

(Anonymous) 2012-01-08 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Seriously? You can spin most any thing to make ether side sound like a victim. What is wrong with being curious. Do we just not blame any one?

I'll admit some people are that touchy but (and I'm not a bnf or anything but) I've had to warn people off another person because of creepy shit they did to me or things they said about people behind there backs.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-09 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
i don't think you should be warning people off of anyone.

this is because i've been the victim in one of these situations, and the people who were victimizing me and others have "warned people off of me" because i stood up for myself. i have good cause to warn people off of the people involved, but i haven't done it. that would still tie me to them. it also drags people who aren't involved into old drama.

this is different if you're talking about someone sexually creepy, though.

[identity profile] mika-kun.livejournal.com 2012-01-08 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Wanting to hear both sides of the story isn't blaming the victim when so little information was given in the secrete. We have no idea what the OP gave as concrit, so we have no way to decide if it actually was offensive or not (though, people remembering years after seems like a huge overreaction for almost anything the OP could possibly have said, I can't remember stuff like that after two months).

[identity profile] mika-kun.livejournal.com 2012-01-08 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
*secret not secrete....