[ SECRET POST #1832 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1832 ⌋


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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

The easiest way out imo is to change schools. I'm not saying it's right for them to bully you out, but chances are, even if the bullies are disciplined for their actions, you will be reprimanded by their friends who remain even more than before.

You need to build your case. Make a detailed, dated log of everything they've done to you. When you transfer, make sure you let your school administration know that you're transferring because you're being bullied to the point of suicide and show them the log. Pretend if you have to, they're legally required to believe in you, so use it to your advantage. Make them feel guilty for your suffering under their supervision so if anything happens to you, they also become responsible. At the same time, convince them you'd be reprimanded if the bullies were questioned or punished while you're still at the school, so you need to transfer immediately. If that's not possible, grab all your belongings including textbooks you borrowed from the school and bring them home. Stop going to school until you transfer but make sure you keep up with your studies. If anyone questions why you're skipping, you "are in the process of transferring out but fear for your safety until then." Ask your parent or guardian to return the textbooks once you've transferred. If the staff punishes you for "skipping" school, take your case to the school board.

Whether the bullies are dealt any punishment is beyond your control. If they aren't disciplined after your transfer, your school's administration is at fault. Although you can't change the way they deal with the bullies, you can make them feel guilty for the rest of their lives for letting the bullies go. A year after you transfer or last attend the school, come back to visit the school administration in person with a parent or guardian. Look sick and deprived of sleep. When they ask how you've been doing, get your parent to tell them you're still recovering, making regular visits to therapists. If they want to know your therapists' names or locations, cling to your parent right away, bury your head in their arm or chest and act TERRIFIED. Your parent should then tell you it's okay while hugging you or holding your hands, while shaking their head to indicate this is something you don't want to talk about. Make a reference to the most recent story about suicide due to bullying that you can find. Lament about how outrageous some people can get away with doing so much damage to someone's life through bullying. Tell them how much you're struggling, that you're reliving the experience in nightmares everyday, but are optimistic to be the lucky handful of survivors. Follow with how strongly you believe in karma.



Yes, I'm telling you to lie, conspire and manipulate your way through. If the bullies get away with harassing you, then you need to find a way to get away with dealing revenge without being punished. This is life.

[insanenoodlyguy.livejournal.com]

You are investing too much thought and energy into a revenge scenario that may or may not work.

[(Anonymous)]

da

That's not revenge, it's getting out of a situation. ._.

[insanenoodlyguy.livejournal.com]

Nope. The poster specifically details going back to induce either punishment or guilt. not for the purposes of preventing others from becoming targets, but to "make them feel guilty for the rest of their lives."

That's very clearly an attempt at revenge. Albiet a convoluted one.

[(Anonymous)]

Mmmkay you're right but that's a small part of what aa wrote.

...when it comes to that part I doubt it would even work. You need to have a sense of responsibility to feel guilt, and the thing about bureaucracies like schools is that no one thinks they're accountable for anything. If the faculty cared enough to be guilty they would have done something in the first place.

[insanenoodlyguy.livejournal.com]

Exactly. It's a small point, but it seemed to be the emphasis, the end goal. And it's a lot of work for something that odds are will just leave you bitter and disappointed by the outcome.

Focusing on getting out of a bad situation is fine. Keeping yourself focused on that situation is more likely to ensure you stay there in mind if not body much longer then you'd have to.

[(Anonymous)]

So how would you deal revenge? OP doesn't sound like she would let go until then.