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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-08 04:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #1832 ]

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[identity profile] ms-manic.livejournal.com 2012-01-09 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
I felt exactly the same reading that book. Whilst I wouldn't say that you should forgive the bullies (especially if they've never apologised or shown remorse), I would say you need to try to find a way of letting go of your anger. What they did will never be okay, but as long as you're angry them they're still in your head and they're still hurting you. They don't deserve to have that power, and you don't deserve to carry on suffering. I don't know how long it's been since high school for you, but having time and being able to build a life away from those people might help, but it might not be enough. It was only after I had therapy 7 years after I dropped out of school that I started to deal with it (although to be fair in that 7 years my life was pretty much in hold because I was really ill with bipolar disorder). It's not something that will happen overnight, and I'm not fully recovered from the bullying yet (I'm still dreaming about it), but it is possible. I hope you find a way to move forward x