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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-10 07:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #1834 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1834 ⌋


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[identity profile] dethtoll.livejournal.com 2012-01-11 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
just send her a message anyway asking what's up

if she doesn't respond, then you'll know more concretely

[identity profile] dethtoll.livejournal.com 2012-01-11 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
i mean she probably left for personal reasons, i know a few people who've purged much of their online presence, either 'cuz of stalkers or shitty home life or whatever

if you send her a message you're at least letting her know you give a damn

[identity profile] dorknessrising.livejournal.com 2012-01-11 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
Seconding this. Depending on the circumstances, I would even throw in an "are you ok?" If the person's in a bad spot, sometimes just knowing somebody out there cares about them as a person and not just a "fandom friend" is enough to make their day a little better.

[identity profile] violence4.livejournal.com 2012-01-11 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, this. There are all sorts of things that could have happened to make her vanish like that. She might really appreciate your concern. You don't have anything to lose, but you might gain your friend back.

[identity profile] insanenoodlyguy.livejournal.com 2012-01-11 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
Indeed. Sometimes people abort fandoms and don't consider all the collateral, but even if they don't want to deal with x fandom it doesn't mean they don't want to deal with you. Hopefully that's the case, and you folks find that even without the fandom you still have stuff to talk about. :)

[identity profile] ariseishirou.livejournal.com 2012-01-11 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
This. Or ask a mutual friend. A fandom acquaintance of mine just vanished from the internets a few years back in the middle of a collaboration, and a waited patiently for a while, then started fuming. Finally tracked her down to find that her husband had tried to kill her and she'd been in the hospital for a few weeks, then had to change cities because his family was harrassing her for making "false accusations" that put their baby boy in jail.

...And I felt like a selfish ass for being worried about a fanfic collaboration.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-11 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
Daaaaaaamn