[ SECRET POST #1836 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1836 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Star Wars: the Old Republic]


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03.
[seth macfarlane]


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04.
[John Saul/Stephen King]


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05.
[Honey, I Shrunk the Kids!]


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06.
[Cassandra Cain & Tim Drake (Batman)]


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07.
[David Archuleta]


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08.
[Ran to Haiiro no Sekai]


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09. [repeat]


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10.
[Black Lagoon]


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11.
[Terra Nova]


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12.
[Digimon]


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13.
[Transformers: Animated]


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14.
[Gerard Butler/Emmy Rossum]


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15.
[Panic! at the Disco]


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16.
[todd and the book of pure evil]


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17.
[Death Note]


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18.
[Rocky]


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19.
[Bomb Girls]


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20.
[Once Upon a Time]


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21.
[Dexter]


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22.
[Alexei Yagudin]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 033 secrets from Secret Submission Post #262.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe this would make a good start?

http://thepsychopath.freeforums.org/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-and-learning-to-let-go-f43.html (http://thepsychopath.freeforums.org/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-and-learning-to-let-go-f43.html)

Ultimately, it's up to you whether or not you want to leave this catastrophe of a relationship, but considering it a wonderful thing...really isn't a wonderful thing.

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks. I've read through the page, and a few more on that website.

I don't think leaving is something I'd immediately consider... But maybe I should think on it more seriously.

Thank you again for the practical help.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry you're in this situation. Just so you know - if people knew he was abusing you, anyone who was a decent human being wouldn't be disgusted with *you.* They'd be disgusted with *him.*

Hugs, and I hope you get out soon. <3

[(Anonymous)]

"Just so you know - if people knew he was abusing you, anyone who was a decent human being wouldn't be disgusted with *you.* They'd be disgusted with *him.*"

This.

OP, I know it's all your decision to make and I hope I don't sound patronizing, but I just want you to know that you deserve much better than this. Please get out and don't put up with anyone who treats you like that. I wish you the best. *hugs*

[megalomaniageek.livejournal.com]

Yeah, OP, nobody here is trying to run your life or make decisions for you. We're just outsiders hearing things that ring a lot of warning bells from out here. So I'm glad to hear you're at least considering it. I trust you to make the best decision for yourself and your own life, but sometimes it helps to have people from the outside give you a different perspective.
Typically when a person talks about "a side of (their partner) that others never see" it usually means they're kind of an asshole outside who's sweet in private or they're a seemingly-nice person who is abusive in private. You seem to be using it in the second sense. If that's true, your friends should not judge you for that, and if they aren't horrible human beings then they won't. Victim blaming does happen but it's wrong. You're not in any way responsible for "letting" your boyfriend treat you that way. It's entirely his fault.