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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-12 07:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #1836 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1836 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Star Wars: the Old Republic]


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03.
[seth macfarlane]


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04.
[John Saul/Stephen King]


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05.
[Honey, I Shrunk the Kids!]


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06.
[Cassandra Cain & Tim Drake (Batman)]


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07.
[David Archuleta]


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08.
[Ran to Haiiro no Sekai]


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09. [repeat]


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10.
[Black Lagoon]


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11.
[Terra Nova]


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12.
[Digimon]


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13.
[Transformers: Animated]


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14.
[Gerard Butler/Emmy Rossum]


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15.
[Panic! at the Disco]


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[todd and the book of pure evil]


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[Death Note]


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18.
[Rocky]


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19.
[Bomb Girls]


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20.
[Once Upon a Time]


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21.
[Dexter]


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22.
[Alexei Yagudin]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 033 secrets from Secret Submission Post #262.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-13 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs op*

Ok, I have had family members suffer from abusive relationships so this is near and dear to my heart, sorry if I ramble!

It's very natural for people in a abusive relationships (whether emotional or otherwise) feel dependent. My favorite aunt was in one herself, and only found the strength to leave when her husband almost hit their eldest daughter. It's a tough thing, and the abuser plays so many mind games that to wake up and walk out is about the only thing you can do to be healthy again.

If you trust and love your friends, or have family you feel will support you, I suggest utilizing that resource as a rallying system. Love only feeds the soul and makes life better when it's healthy, otherwise you can find yourself losing pieces of yourself into you don't know who YOU are anymore. Misa was a popular girl who lost everything, I don't want you to end up the same way OP.

My aunt who I mentioned has a pretty awesome life many (many) years later, is a highly paid consultant in her field and has recently had a lot of fun dying her hair blond and going on a tour of the wine country and blogging about it under a character name she invented for her newly-blond self. ;) This is years later, and she is one of the most fun and life-loving people I know, even while recovering from a dangerous form of cancer. She has always been a strong person, she just had to discover that for herself.

So don't let yourself think this is the end of anything except a poisonous relationship. Think of it as going on a exciting new adventure with who-knows-what in the future.