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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-15 04:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #1839 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1839 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2012-01-15 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Have you actually been saying offensive things, though?

(Anonymous) 2012-01-16 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
From the "walking on eggshells" bit, it sounds more like OP and the rest of their friends are trying their damnedest not to offend this person, but the "friend" is determined to get their daily rage fix however they can.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-16 03:55 pm (UTC)(link)
It's such a weird thing though. I really don't know how to feel about this secret because I could easily see it either way. OP probably is trying hard... but maybe OP is also saying stuff that still rubs Friend the wrong way and Friend is just tired of it, you know? A kind of no-win situation. I mean, if I started telling people IRL that I hate sexist slurs and people saying "gay" and "retarded," I'd have no friends. I still hate them. And I'm sure my friends would feel like OP here. Who would be in the wrong? Well, in my opinion, nobody. I'd be standing up for what I believe in, and they would be standing up for their right to say what they want. Both are legitimate.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-16 04:14 pm (UTC)(link)
From what OP said further down thread, I think they may be using "offend" when they really mean "set off." According to OP, Friend's behavior is erratic; some days she'll be calm and cheerful, other days her temper is on a hair-trigger and she snaps/blows up at everyone.