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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-17 07:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #1841 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1841 ⌋


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Notes:

FS is not your platform to advertise around to find artists to draw your doujinshi ideas for you. Seriously, "looking for an artist pls email me with samples of your work"? "Secrets" like that will not be posted and probably loled about in this section right here.

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[identity profile] valenciapilgrim.livejournal.com 2012-01-18 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
The problem that I see with this guy is that he doesn't seem to accept and respect your interests as valid, and wants to change you. And I suspect that if you let him have his way over this, he will only go after some different hobby. Or maybe he doesn't like one of your friends, or a family member, and then so on. If he thought that you were WAY too in to comic books, like if you were spending a huge amount of your paycheck on them, or something, and thought it would be healthy to cut back, that would be different. But everyone is going to have some hobbies that their S.O. doesn't share, that's nice and normal and non co-dependent.

It seems like in your heart you know what you need to do. It's just a matter of finding the strength to do it. Just think of it as doing something unpleasant now to save a whole lifetime of unpleasant in front of you. Can you move in with a friend or family member for a while? You will not be able to afford as many material goods if you are on a single income, that is true for almost anyone. Is there really some magical job out there that would solve all of your problems if only you could find it?

[identity profile] dorknessrising.livejournal.com 2012-01-18 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, this. He sounds like an obsessive, controlling, and dare I say it emotionally abusive douche. OP deserves better.