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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-17 07:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #1841 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1841 ⌋


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Notes:

FS is not your platform to advertise around to find artists to draw your doujinshi ideas for you. Seriously, "looking for an artist pls email me with samples of your work"? "Secrets" like that will not be posted and probably loled about in this section right here.

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(Anonymous) 2012-01-18 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
Do not settle! I am speaking from experience here. Never ever settle when it comes to a relationship and your happiness.

It's up to you if his attitude towards comics is a deal breaker or not, but if it's something that truly bothers you don't shrug it off and settle because you feel like you have no other option. There's always another option.

I don't know the whole story, but from what you've shared with us... your fiance sounds like a douche. I dated someone who acted just like that. Superiority complex with an ego to match. He belittled me daily and most of the time I didn't even really notice because it was so subtle. Usually he said these things when no one was around, but he slipped up and said them around our mutual friends. I'd make an honest mistake and he'd call me an idiot. I remember they were shocked and I defended him. "That's just how he is. It's not serious." It was the day I realized that he actually truly thought I was an idiot that I realized I was in an emotionally abusive relationship. If this sounds familiar, I urge you to really reconsider why you're with this guy and to possibly put some space between you guys.

I hate giving advice so blindly like this and I hate to even say that a break could be what's best. I don't know you or your relationship, so it's your call on if his behavior is abusive or if it's the product of just having a bad day or something. Either way, good luck.