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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-19 07:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #1843 ]

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[identity profile] oflittlebrain.livejournal.com 2012-01-20 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
NS: People just like to have a name for how they feel, I guess. One one hand, it doesn't bother me and I guess it's nice for them to have a way to identify themselves and find people who are like them. On the other hand, it pisses me off when it starts to head into special snowflake territory. For example, as I am right now, I'm not really capable of/interested in having sex with someone who I'm not emotionally involved with. But I would never call myself a "demisexual" because, um, that's not really a thing. How I am is kind of how society at large wants people to be. I'm not exactly an underprivileged minority in this respect, so I think it's silly to act like being a "demisexual" is a big deal.

(i think i mostly just get annoyed by that particular term. i do believe that being aromantic/asexual is a thing. i am prone to rolling my eyes if the discussion turns to "sexual privilege" or whatever, though.)

(Anonymous) 2012-01-20 07:59 am (UTC)(link)
"Demisexual" pisses me off more than any other label combined. It seems like they're calling anybody capable of a one-night stand any number of belittling names that I won't go into here, but we all know what they are.

Asexual? Aromantic? Fine.

"Demisexual" - that's not.