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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-20 07:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #1844 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1844 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02. [broken]


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03.
[Venture Bros]


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04.
[Benedict Cumberbatch]


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05.
[Dungeons of Dredmor]


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06.
[One Direction]


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07.
[ASoIaF]


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08.
[That Guy With The Glasses]


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09.
[The Black Jewels Series]


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10.
[Les Miserables]


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11.
[Doug Walker/That Guy With The Glasses]


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13.
[Tripping Over You]


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14.
[Supernatural]


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15.
[Todd Klein]


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16.
[Bakuman]


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17.
[Dragon Age 2]


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18.
[VVVVVV]


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19.
[Sherlock Holmes]


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20.
[House M.D]


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21.
[Charmed]


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22.
[Farscape]


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24.
[Miss A and Wonder Girls]


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25.
[Pepsi Man]


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26.
[the hunger games / lady gaga]


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27.
[Friends]


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28.
[Star Trek: TNG]


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30.
[Anno 1790]


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31.
[Happy Endings]


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32.


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33.
[Doctor Who]


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34.
[The Muppets 2011]


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35.
[Hetalia]


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36.
[Dune]


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37.
[Bravestarr]


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38.
[Dreamstone]


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39. [SPOILERS for Pottermore]



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40. [SPOILERS for something not specified]



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41. [SPOILERS for Berserk]



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42. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest, shota]



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43. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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44. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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45. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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46. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]



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47. [TRIGGER WARNING for dub-con, domestic abuse, BDSM]

[House]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #263.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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[identity profile] por-queeee.livejournal.com 2012-01-21 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad that you've never been through that rough of a time in your life. But it's rather shocking how much empathy you seem to lack.

There are a variety of reasons a person can become depressed enough to consider taking their own life, and all of those reasons are valid. Life isn't always a walk in the park, as I'm sure you're aware, but is it really so hard to understand that other people might have experienced a depth of pain you're unfamiliar with, one which might make them feel absolutely desolate?

Do you have any idea what it can be like to feel as if every moment of your life is a pain that you would rather die than suffer? I'm sure you've been sad. Everyone is sad at times, and I'm sure you were sad for very valid reasons. I'm not saying those reasons are any less valid than other people's. What I'm saying is that the kind of sadness I'm talking about is one that feels altogether different, altogether more hopeless.

As someone who has been through major problems with depression, the attitude of people like you is a very distressing one to encounter. I managed to get through it, but yes, I used fiction as an escape and a crutch to keep me going. Because seeing all of those far away worlds was enough to give me hope. Because reading about or watching characters who were what I desperately wanted to see in humanity was uplifting. Sometimes the things I read or watched resonated so deeply that it helped me to keep going for the next day or week or month, simply by remembering what it had given me. And sometimes they only served as a distraction from my problems.

I have an awesome life now OP, and I'm proud of myself for making it through those feelings, and not at all ashamed for having felt them. I encourage everyone else in a similar place to fight through it, using whatever tools they have to- not everyone has friends, family, or significant others that they can lean on, and even if they do it's not always enough.