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fandomsecrets2012-01-20 07:34 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-01-20 07:34 pm
[ SECRET POST #1844 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1844 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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02. [broken]
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[Venture Bros]
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[Benedict Cumberbatch]
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[Dungeons of Dredmor]
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[One Direction]
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[ASoIaF]
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08.
[That Guy With The Glasses]
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[The Black Jewels Series]
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10.
[Les Miserables]
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[Doug Walker/That Guy With The Glasses]
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[Tripping Over You]
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[Supernatural]
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15.
[Todd Klein]
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[Bakuman]
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[Dragon Age 2]
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18.
[VVVVVV]
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19.
[Sherlock Holmes]
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[House M.D]
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[Charmed]
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[Farscape]
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[Miss A and Wonder Girls]
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[Pepsi Man]
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26.
[the hunger games / lady gaga]
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27.
[Friends]
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[Star Trek: TNG]
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[Anno 1790]
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[Happy Endings]
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[Doctor Who]
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34.
[The Muppets 2011]
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[Hetalia]
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[Dune]
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37.
[Bravestarr]
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[Dreamstone]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
39. [SPOILERS for Pottermore]
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40. [SPOILERS for something not specified]
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41. [SPOILERS for Berserk]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
42. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest, shota]
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43. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]
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44. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]
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45. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]
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46. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]
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47. [TRIGGER WARNING for dub-con, domestic abuse, BDSM]
[House]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #263.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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I just wanted to say that sometimes, people's lives really are that bad that a fictional series or book or whatever is the best thing about it. I have spoken to kids whose lives are so fucked up that their life stories would be rejected by a publisher for being overdramatic and unrealistic. Nobody would believe the kind of shit that has happened to them.
People upthread have made good points about depression warping your viewpoint anyway so that it seems like nothing is worth living for except X TV series, but depression can be caused by both misfiring brain chemicals and because of circumstances. Sometimes people's lives are a genuine pit of fucking despair, and when those people find something good, they cling to it. As they are welcome to do, and I hope they continue doing it. And their lives may not seem worth it to you, but that's your beef, not theirs. And even when they are in absolute crap, the point isn't, "Well, life's shit, let's kick the bucket," but, "Let's see what I can do to make things better. It might be rubbish now but if I can hang on long enough and work on this, I could get to a place where life is good."
You may feel your life isn't worthwhile if you only enjoy one fandom thing. I happen to think everyone can do something good and find their own worth, and it's not my place to judge what others find worthwhile. I hope that if you ever find yourself in that kind of a place in your life, where only X is keeping you going, that it works for you, because otherwise you could miss out on a whole lot of better stuff once you've passed through that black patch.
Perhaps putting so much importance on one thing does seem pitiful, to you. But people whose lives are that bad, or feel that bad, don't need pity. They need support, understanding and acceptance.
I agree with someone upthread who suggested you should talk about this opinion with your therapist. Take care.
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