[ SECRET POST #1847 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1847 ⌋


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Comments

[kindlycoyote.livejournal.com]

I agree with a lot of this.

I do sympathize a lot with the OP though, because similar stuff squicks me out, though it is slightly different. For me personally, there is a line I go to from 'ok' to 'squicked out'. I think it is fine to express appreciation of certain body parts or the hawtness of someone, but... Well, to use myself as a example-

If I dress sexy, I would be flattered if I knew someone was talking about how hot I was, or even how nice my ass looked (as long as they were saying this to their friends and I found out via other means, because social norms and all that).

However, if I found out someone was saying 'they have a nice ass, I would love to smack it 'till it turned red', I would be grossed out.

For me I try to avoid going from 'appreciation' to 'sexual fantasizing' for the same reason I am squicked by RPF. It just feels like writing RPF with me as the Sue. The strange thing is I don't judge other people for doing this, it's just something I am uncomfortable with. (Seriously, my sexual fantasies revolve around people I made up. That way I don't feel uncomfortable about it).

So in short, I don't think the OP is necessarily wrong for being uncomfortable with it. As long as she isn't judging other people for doing something fairly natural and not really wrong (kinda like how different kinks might weird you out, but it is perfectly fine for people to have them). So yes, pretty much agree with what you said. /tl'dr, I am rambly tonight. 14 hour work day makes me repeat myself way too much.