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Except I was also a total douchnozzle in dismissing trigger discussion in fandom for the first reason you listed and for other, uh, stupider reasons ("warnings will spoil shit" god i want to slap myself some more)
I don't deal at all with domestic violence, or verbal abuse involving people holding power over another, fathers in particular. In fact, I've pretty much got a radar for it, so I know when to change a channel, back-button a fic, or skip a chapter before it happens. Even those signs can be upsetting though, and I feel rather dim for not acknowledging that was never a good thing. So when a friend of mine showed me a clip of a film or show (can't recall which and don't want to) where it's only implied that a character's father has a hair-trigger temper and threw a plate at her, and I'm physically stuck in bed for a day, and no appetite for the week, did I finally get it.