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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-25 05:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #1849 ]

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[identity profile] xxsomeoneelsexx.livejournal.com 2012-01-27 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
It makes me kind of sad that everyone in this thread going "It is not good to stigmatize people with legitimate disorders" feels the need, without exception, to add a disclaimer of "but those people who only think they have it and use it as an excuse, yeah fuck them." Are fake Aspies/Aspies who avoid responsibility really that common that everyone has to tack that on when discussing mostly-decent people with real problems? Really?

[identity profile] lovelycudy.livejournal.com 2012-01-27 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
I think people are mostly complaining about self-diagnosed people who excuse their jerk behaviour using a mental condition.

[identity profile] xxsomeoneelsexx.livejournal.com 2012-01-27 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
Sadly yes, this thread is yet another bitchfest about people using their disorders as an excuse. (I feel like we have these once a week like clockwork, wtf) What I find sad is that even the people discussing how it is wrong to stigmatize people are throwing in something about the fakers are annoying. It kept striking me as some kind of disclaimer, like they feel obligated to complain about them. Weird, and sad.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-27 01:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Also, how do these people even know who is self-diagnosed and who isn't? Are those who are complaining over thinking that someone is using their disorder as an flimsy excuse to cover up bad behavior or is it actually legit? They are probably people that get shoved into the "Oh they are just using X as an excuse" category, when it's affecting them.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-27 07:58 pm (UTC)(link)
It is easy to spot the self diagnosed. If you say something bad about ass-pies then everyone that piles on saying how their life is oh-so hard and how we are all terrible for for insulting them; then those as the self diagnosed guys who are full of bullshit. Also anyone who gets all hysterical, then tags the end of their post with an "I've been profesionaly dianosed, FYI", those are the lying bastards who are also self-diagnosed, but at least have the courage to admit to themselves they are full of shit so lie about it.

The people that have genuine Autism; those are the ones who don't mention it at all, but just apologise for getting something wrong and move on.

Happy Ass-Burger spotting.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-27 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Are fake Aspies/Aspies who avoid responsibility really that common that everyone has to tack that on when discussing mostly-decent people with real problems? Really?

Sadly, yes it is. I have yet to meet even one self-professed Aspie online who didn't resort to playing their diagnosis (real or not) to shuck responsibility when called out on their shit. It's a trendy disease right now, thanks to doctors over-diagnosing it to please parents who should never have bred in the first place.