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fandomsecrets2012-02-09 07:23 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-02-09 07:23 pm
[ SECRET POST #1864 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1864 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Howl's Moving Castle]
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[Doctor Who]
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[Sailor Moon]
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[Orphan]
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06. [repeat]
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[Muppet Treasure Island]
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[The Vampire Chronicles]
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[American baseball]
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[Wall-E]
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[Death Note, BBC Sherlock]
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[Virgin Love]
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[Anne McCaffrey's Dinosaur Planet I & II]
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[The Vampire Diaries]
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[Die Ärzte]
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[King of the Hill, Ben 10]
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[Madonna]
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[How I Met Your Mother]
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[The Hunger Games]
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[Phi Brain: Kami No Puzzle]
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[Cover Up!, The Crow]
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[Flashdance]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 031 secrets from Secret Submission Post #266.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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I myself am always surprised when people start calling me a friend, because the vast majority of the time I do not consider them a friend at that point. Where a lot of people take only a couple weeks to connect and consider someone a friend, it takes me MONTHS to get even the basic connection. Sure, a lot of it comes from past baggage, but a lot of it is that I am slow to connect emotionally with people. However, I am also a sap so I would do a lot to comfort someone I don't even know, but that comes a lot from my tendency to idealize people before I get to know them.
The OP might just be hanging around the wrong type of people to inspire that kind of connection with. Friendship doesn't come easy for some.
OP; try to expand your social base and meet new people, and try one on one interactions as a primary way to hang out. I know I have even more trouble connecting with people in crowds. Start figuring out what makes you tick socially, sometimes it isn't what other people experience.