[ SECRET POST #183 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #183 ⌋

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Notes:

Might have taken one from the recent submission post. Sorry about that!

PS - I hate HTML

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Comments

[crackjaw.livejournal.com]

I suppose the proper term I should have used was "aromantic."

Girls my age should not really be interested in having sex, no. But we're developing. We have urges. My peers are interested in dating and I'm not, yes. But they also have had romantic interest in other people for several years. They've had crushes, they're capable of finding boys or girls genuinely attractive besides a simple "Oh, they're kind of good-looking" comment. The idea of having sex with or even kissing someone else grosses me out, and I'm far enough in my life that I should be past that point by now. I have no romantic or sexual interest in other people whatsoever, and believe me this caused me some distress when I didn't realize that this was happening to other people as well.

If my peers can genuinely identify as gay, why can't I genuinely identify as asexual? Additionally, sexuality is fluid. I may develop interest in people later on down the road. That doesn't change the fact that there is absolutely nothing, not even a little, right now. If I could change that, I probably would, because I do feel like I'm missing out on something sometimes.

And no, I haven't visited a doctor yet because it's no longer causing me any real concern.