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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-02-15 07:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #1870 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1870 ⌋


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[identity profile] three-sixth.livejournal.com 2012-02-16 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
"Codependency (or codependence, co-narcissism or inverted narcissism) is unhealthy love and a tendency to behave in overly passive or excessively caretaking ways that negatively impact one's relationships and quality of life. It also often involves placing a lower priority on one's own needs, while being excessively preoccupied with the needs of others."

"Codependency may also be characterized by denial, low self-esteem, excessive compliance, or control patterns." - From Wiki

I'm not even sure if it fits codependency. Let's see: Excessive compliance (John not being angry at Sherlock for the experiment? But John complains about heads and things all the time. He also complains about when Sherlock does cruel things. I kinda approve of the tolerating the body parts; I mean Sherlock does need friends who accept him), Lower Priority on one's own needs (but then John does go out and get a job), and control patterns (Sherlock does go out and interrupt John's dates, but then John fails at his dates without Sherlock's interference).

I agree with you. My main problem is with how terribly Sherlock treats John sometimes.

Edit: Hmmm, it does seem their relationship has a bit of co-dependence to it.
Edited 2012-02-16 01:46 (UTC)