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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-07 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #1891 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1891 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Why is it ridiculous? That's like saying it would be ridiculous for people within the asexual spectrum to be included under the queer umbrella :/

Discrimination doesn't sit right with me, no matter who's perpetuating it.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

Lol, no. Asexuals are discriminated against for not indulging in sexual practises that are considered 'normal' - just like others on the LGBTQQIA spectrum. Hypersexuals? Perpetuate normative standards of sexuality, conforming to the hypersexual ideal that is emulated in all sorts of forms of media. They're not oppressed. They're the ideal that the rest of the world is aspiring to, and they are the reason asexuals - and other queer people! - are discriminated against.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
Are you suggesting that everyone who isn't asexual is hypersexual?

I'm pretty sure there's a medium somewhere in there called normative society, and it's certainly not hypersexual. I've been harassed, driven out of groups and clubs because I was too sexual. Maybe the vast majority of the people I've interacted with my whole live have actually been aces, but if that's the case, there's a lot more of you than there are hypersexuals, and WE'RE the ones who are discriminated against while YOU are the norm, perpetuating normative sexual practices like no sex until you're in love (grey aces/demisexuals), no sex outside of marriage (aces), no cheating on your so (all aces) etc.

YOU are part of the problem.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 04:05 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, fuck you very much.

Seriously, are you actually suggesting that cheating is a good thing? You want cheating on one's spouse to be normative, encouraged behavior?

Not to mention, have you never heard of emotional cheating? Sexual intercourse isn't the only form of cheating out there. Do some research, you privileged ass.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 04:09 am (UTC)(link)
No, but I am suggesting that it's something that hypersexuals have very little control over, and it's pretty much inevitable when a repressed hypersexual tries to fit into the NORM and have a monogamous relationship. It's not a good thing, it's a sad result of our close-minded, discriminatory society.

When we have media representation, and education about us, and our own label to belong to, hypersexuals will for the most part begin to understand ourselves at earlier ages, before we can hurt people by trying to fit in and failing.

And I'm not even talking about whatever that is.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, now you're going a bit too far. I'm sure hypersexuals are oppressed, too, it's just not the same thing as what asexuals face.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
I've heard some compelling arguments that the oppression asexuals face is different from that faced by LGBTQs... so I don't know. Maybe it is the same, but that doesn't mean it's wrong?