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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-07 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #1891 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1891 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 04:37 am (UTC)(link)
Are you just being deliberately dense?

We STILL DON'T EXPERIENCE SEXUAL ATTRACTION. No matter how much sex we have, as long as we don't do it because of attraction, (or primary attraction, if you're demi), we're still fucking ace. I personally need the sensation of another person fucking me in order to 'scratch the itch' for an orgasm, so to speak, because I've never been able to get the hang of vibrators or anything, but I've never experienced attraction to those who I have sex with.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
To me you sound like you're in denial.

JS.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 04:51 am (UTC)(link)
Ugh, that is exactly what my mom told me when I came out to her as ace hypersexual and she asked me to explain. Hypersexual-denial and hyper-shaming trigger me into reliving that horrible awkward experience. It's an incredibly scarring experience, and my family still brings up 'that one time I told mom all about the very specific circumstances under which I'd have sex for nonsexual reasons'. You know why that is? Because we live in a society that shames non-normative levels of sexual desire. And you're promoting it.

Have fun perpetuating that bigotry, douchefuck.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 04:56 am (UTC)(link)
That's awful. I was so lucky with my coming out as hypersexual. I spoke to my aunt and she was very understanding and patience. And after learning about it, she said that she was hypersexual too.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
IA. I'm so fortunate to be blessed with friends who are fierce ace/hypersexual allies and are willing to accept my identity and support me even when I face marginalization.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 04:57 am (UTC)(link)
You're shamed for being hypersexual. I totally accept that hypersexuality is a sexual minority oppressed by the sexual majority. You're still not asexual.

You're shamed for wanting too much sex. I face ridicule from my peers and pressures from my parents because I don't want sex at all, and because people like you have ruined the asexuality label so that it means basically nothing.

In short, fuck off.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 04:48 am (UTC)(link)
The itch is sexual attraction.


Hope that helps.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
Can you stop being so condescending? It's very triggering.

Hope that helps.