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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-08 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #1892 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1892 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[How I Met Your Mother]


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03.
[White Collar]


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04.
[Smash]


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05.
[How I Met Your Mother]


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06.
[Revenge]


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07.
[The Hunger Games]


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08.
[Yu-Gi-Oh]


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09.
[White Collar]


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10.
[Obscurus Lupa, Subspecies]


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11.
[Castleville]


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12.
[Gintama]


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13.
[The Cat Returns]


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14.
[Mythbusters]


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15.
[Invasion of the Body Snatchers]


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16.
[Titanic]


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17.
[All Dogs go to Heaven]


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18.
[Hatoful Boyfriend]


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19.
[Pokemon]


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20.
[Phantom of the Opera]


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21.
[The Middle]


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22.
[life on mars]


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23.
[Scrubs]


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24.
[A Goofy Movie]


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25.
[Nerimon/Alex Day]


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26.
[Katie McGrath]


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27.
[Chuck]


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28.
[Top Chef Season 9]


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29.
[The Vampire Diaries]


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30.
[The Vampire Diaries]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 045 secrets from Secret Submission Post #270.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
I pray you're not a misandrist, either. The only thing worse than an anti-choice feminist is a sexist one.

Misandry doesn't exist, and it's impossible to be sexist against men.

Congratulations, you're a fucking idiot.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
Definition of MISANDRY: a hatred of men

Source: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/misandry

Sounds like it's real. Even if you're going for the institutional definition, misandry is still the prejudice against men, and, yes, you're still an asshole for that.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 04:19 am (UTC)(link)
Nope. Because any "prejudice" or "hatred" toward men is a direct result of misogyny. But thanks for playing.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
Just because some men were mean to you don't give you the right to be a royal bitch to every other man you met.

That is prejudice and is WRONG no matter how you slice it.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
I never said it did. Only that claiming misandry or that women can be sexist against men is complete silly-talk if you know anything about the history of prejudice, at all. If there's one thing that will make me write you off as a fucking moron, it's lamenting the plight of the poor mens.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 04:48 am (UTC)(link)
You know what? I do care about misandry. It's not as pressing as misogyny, it may even originate from misogyny, but you know what? That doesn't make it nothing!

Women can be sexist against men (in the layman's definition), and men can be sexist against men. Dismissing it is dismissing your own responsibilities and I have no respect for people who treat men like shit because they're men.

While sexism, as you define it is power and prejudice, the prejudice is the real sin. Most SJ types forget that.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 04:56 am (UTC)(link)
So even if "hatred" of men is all traced back to the hatred and oppression of women, we still need to consider the men's poor little fee-fees when fighting for our right to be people. Gotcha. I have no respect for complete fucking morons, so I guess that makes us even.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 05:07 am (UTC)(link)
And this is why I hate calling myself a feminist.

I want equal rights and equal respect, but that doesn't mean I get to treat men like shit and they have to kiss my ass and call it candy.

Maybe I actually want to have equal respect towards everyone.

I love how you're dehumanizing men by implying they shouldn't have feelings. Isn't that just perpetuating the idea that men shouldn't have feelings? Isn't that the misogyny you're fighting? Maybe I can call myself a feminist because you sure as hell aren't - by your own definition!

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 05:15 am (UTC)(link)
I love how you're dehumanizing men by implying they shouldn't have feelings/

That's not what I was saying, actually, but nice attempt at a strawman. This is why I love calling myself a feminist.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 07:17 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe you should just consider that, like women, any individual man you meet is not All Men Ever and Part of the Hivemind Oppressing Women.

I don't want to be part of any kind of feminism that dictates that equality for women can only come from the debasement of men.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 03:47 pm (UTC)(link)
And I don't want to be part of the kind of feminism that dictates that I must consider the feelings of the poor mens before my own when I'm fighting for equal footing. Their feelings don't mean shit to me when I'm being robbed of my rights as a human fucking being at every turn.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 05:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Really? Do you live in the US/Canada because I have seen very, very few issues where women aren't treated as human beings here.

As for considering men's feelings - you don't have to consider them before your own, but you do have to consider them to some measure, because they're human beings. No human being's feelings are worth shit. Sometimes, a goal might be worth more than the individual's feelings or opinions, but the anon wasn't working towards any goal, she was just dismissing him because he was a man so his feelings and opinions were worthless to the point where he shouldn't even speak.

Yeah, I have a problem with that. If his opinions are wrong, they'd be wrong coming from a woman, if they're right, they're right coming from a man or a woman. We can accept and reject opinions based on nice things like logic or reason, not because of the speaker's gender.

You may not have the power, but you have all the prejudice. As far as I'm concerned, you're personally just as bad as any raving misogynist out there, you just don't have the power to make is all out sexism. I'd rather talk to the men who have the power and are trying to deal with the prejudice than a woman who is so prejudiced herself.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 05:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Really? Do you live in the US/Canada because I have seen very, very few issues where women aren't treated as human beings here.

Stopped reading right there. It's obvious the kind of bubble you live in, so I can't take anything else you say seriously.

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Well then, what frame of reference are you looking at? I'll adjust accordingly.

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[identity profile] otakugal15.livejournal.com 2012-03-09 09:32 am (UTC)(link)
Hahahaha. I'm just laughing at the fact she thinks I'm one of the WORST feminists. I usually don't give a flying shit what anyone does, feminist or not.

I just found OP to be a rather sad person to want throw way their physical, emotional, and mental autonomy away for some dumb bit of wealth (going by JUST THAT particular situation anyway. were it in any other situation where circumstances were different, i wouldn't care. she can do what she wants. *shrug*) .

Sure it's her choice, but it's still very sad and slightly pathetic in my eyes.

Pffft, if I hated men, I so would NOT be dating one. Lolololololol.

Dissenting opinions means I'm also a misandrist. HAH. What ever that anon is smoking, has to be a bad batch.