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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-14 06:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #1898 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1898 ⌋


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[identity profile] silver-miko.livejournal.com 2012-03-15 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
OP, you can always turn things around for yourself, there's nothing saying you can't. Did you finish your phD? I mean, even if not, there's always other options.
I was in a similar miserable case myself not too long ago, but I decided to stop letting everything else dictate my life and changed my situation (I was in a medical admin job I was good at but didn't like, living in the same town I lived in all my life, and feeling utterly stuck so I decided to go back to school to get my master's and I moved 3000 miles across country, granted I went a lil extreme.)

Scully life wasn't peaches either, she had a ton of shit flung in her path and even she occasionally wavered in a desire to muddle through, and she had like 2 dates the entire stretch of the show as far as we know and no known friends so it was mostly chasing aliens/Mulder/or fighting for her life.
If you've pursued a phD you obviously have some smarts and probably have qualifying job skills for many things and you could find by accident something you end up liking.
I guess the point is, it's ok sometimes to feel self-pity, but don't let it dictate who you are and what you are doing.