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(Anonymous) 2012-03-15 06:48 pm (UTC)(link)With this thread it has become abundantly clear to me that those who favor the character do not want to hear from any dissenters, period, even if those dissenters have legit reasons for disliking a character that has nothing to do with ethnic background or gender. So basically what we're seeing here is reverse intolerance. i.e. because of some people may have exhibited ugly intolerance in the past, all Trek fans who dislike Uhura are then grouped into the same category. Or, to be more clear, you can't voice any concerns with her characterization without being shoved into a category of racist haters, even if you had no racist intent.
Kind of a double standard when it comes to tolerance, isn't it? What it comes down to is a unwillingness or a non-acceptance of anyone who would dislike the character for any reason at all, therefore you are being 'intolerant' of those who don't like her and labeling them with derogatory context. Because being called a racist *is* derogatory.
Everyone has characters they prefer over others. Everyone has can have characters they dislike because of their behavior (not their color, not their accent, not their gender... their BEHAVIOR) and guess what? That's okay. No one should be able to strong-handle or bully anyone else into agreeing with their preferences through the use of generalizing and name-calling. It's ridiculous. It's rude. Its obnoxious.
When I first commented in this thread, I was open to eventually liking her should the writers make her a little more... approachable and less abrasive in the next movie. I didn't hate her, I was just uncomfortable with her contemptuous attitude. Now though, I'm beginning to think her bahavior has nothing, was positively congenial in fact, compared to a portion of her fanbase here on fandom!secrets.
Wow.
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(Anonymous) 2012-03-15 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2012-03-15 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)So you said 'nope', but I say 'yes', I believe what I said above is accurate and I stand by it.
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(Anonymous) 2012-03-16 03:34 pm (UTC)(link)You're speaking in a lot of coded language that reads to me as latent anti-black prejudice. So now I need to learn my place because I'm not being nice according to your very specific standards?
Nawl son.
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(Anonymous) 2012-03-16 04:05 pm (UTC)(link)Let it be noted that I have not once resulted to saying I hated her. I said I disapproved of her portrayal and I would like to see her more approachable and less condescending in the next film.
You know what I think? I think you don't like me pointing out negative behavior of your favorite character. You consider me harping on her, and that makes you angry, thus you call me a 'racist' to shut me up and make me feel bad for my point of view. IT WILL NOT HAPPEN.
I am not a racist. I am a minority myself. I get the effects of prejudice because its been done to me and I would never put anyone else through that. I treat everyone I meet with dignity and respect unless they gave me a reason to do otherwise. Can you say the same? I doubt it, because you haven't treated me with dignity and respect at all.
What I said before about treating people with dignity and respect unless they give me a reason otherwise? Well, you've given me a reason otherwise. GET OFF YOUR FUCKING HIGH HORSE. You have no leg to stand on. None. People are not going to like your favorite character. You need to come to terms with that. I suggest a psychologist because your issues are very apparent.
Also, before I was just kinda 'meh' at Uhura before, but now, I don't think I'll be able to look at her in the future without remembering how rabid her fanbase is, to the point that they result in name calling and petty, petty slandering. You've ruined her for me entirely. That is a shame. I wanted to like her because I loved her in TOS.