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fandomsecrets2012-03-23 07:01 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-03-23 07:01 pm
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(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 12:58 am (UTC)(link)Just to reply to your point, people have often told me that I would 'grow out of it' and I'd mature into liking it. This hasnt happened so far, but I am not fixed in my sexuality if you know what I mean- I am asexual, but if for some reason it did turn out that I was an incredibly late bloomer, and I actually loooooove sex, then I would be willing to accept that about myself. However, I don't think it particularly likely.
As for psychological conditions- I have ADHD, but nothing else psychologically wrong with me (and I'm a psychologist, so I've been through a billion tests :D ).
Sorry if this has gone on a tangent, I just wanted to reply- I don't want to start an argument, I think your opinion is shared by a lot of people, and I'm happy to accept that. The only thing I can't accept is when people accuse me of doing it to be 'different'. Yeah, like I would choose to not be able to have a proper relationship because apparently round here no sex= no relationship.
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(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 01:19 am (UTC)(link)I think there is a difference between finding it a bit odd or urgh, and being repulsed and disgusted by the act. When someone is ill at the thought of sex or physically disgusted by it, that's when I think there is a separate issue.
And when I said "immature" I was thinking more along the lines of how grade school kids act - "kissing is gross!". I added the immature thing because a lot of teenagers that I've seen talking about their asexuality online come off as really immature for their age. They seem to be more "omg sex is so gross and weird!" than "sex is not for me" type. I'm asexual and I've gotten the "you'll like it when you're older" quite a few times. I'm 33, I'm pretty sure nothings going to change.
Hope this cleared things up? I have ADHD too, and it can make making my point clear and concise and understandable kind of difficult for me sometimes. Feel free to ask for clarification if something I said doesn't make sense.
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(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 01:30 am (UTC)(link)I have to admit that when I was younger, I was in the kinda immature 'ew ickky sex' frame of mind (around my mid-late teens), but as I got older, I might not have grown into liking sex, but I did grow up in that I understood my objection to it more, if that makes any sense.
Heh, you've gotta wonder at what age people will just go 'you know, I've been saying this for years and you've never grown out of it, I'm gonna give up and let it go now' XD
And no worries, I'm terrible at getting my points clear half the time, I just didnt catch on to what you were saying at first :)