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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-23 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #1907 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1907 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 09:12 am (UTC)(link)
No need to apologize! I'm the one who should apologize, since I completely misunderstood what you said and I probably came off as rude. So sorry about that. And I wasn't offended so much as annoyed. My earlier comment was just a kneejerk response, really. You wouldn't believe how many people can easily accept the concept of asexuality but refuse to believe that anyone could have no interest in romantic relations.

What you're saying actually makes perfect sense to me, but I doubt you'd find many who would agree with that. I once saw someone bring up a similar point in a asexuality-related discussion, then they got dogpiled and accused of "identity policing" before the discussion could go anywhere.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
No problem. I know it's easy to get frustrated with these kinds of things! I'm still not even entirely sure what my own orientation is, and I know so many people who think straight and gay are the only options, so I definitely get frustrated when people are like "oh, yeah, you're just confused if you think you're anything but straight or gay".

And yeah, I don't think many people here would agree. The one other time I saw it brought up was I think probably the conversation you're referring to (if it was here), where they were accused of identity policing, and the discussion never really went anywhere. I've seen several comments outside of this comm that seem to see it that way, but as they weren't specifically sexuality-based discussions they never went in depth enough to know for sure.

I think it's mostly just that all these different terms for different orientations or aspects of sexuality popping up kind of confuse me, especially when it seems most of them, outside of straight/gay/bisexual, don't seem to have specific definitions that everyone can agree on. I guess that's kind of the nature of such a complex topic, though.