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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-30 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #1914 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1914 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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12. [SPOILERS for ASOIAF/Game of Thrones]



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15. [SPOILERS for 9 Hours, 9 Persons, 9 Doors]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse]

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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, child abuse, and shotacon]



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21. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest]



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22. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]



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(Anonymous) 2012-03-31 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
Hi OP. Another sexual abuse survivor here.

Being sexually aroused by things doesn't mean that what happened to you was okay. It's not retroactively giving permission for what happened to you, and it's not absolving anyone of anything.

There is exactly one person who has any say in how you handle things, and that's you. People will judge and try to tell you what you should be feeling and what you should experience, but the only one who knows the inside of your head and your heart is you.

A lot of times what society tells you you're supposed to feel and what you actually do feel are wildly different. And that's okay as long as everyone involved in whatever you do is a consenting adult.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-31 06:33 am (UTC)(link)
Being sexually aroused by things doesn't mean that what happened to you was okay. It's not retroactively giving permission for what happened to you, and it's not absolving anyone of anything.

Couldn't agree more.