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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-30 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #1914 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1914 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse]

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-31 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
Rather than asking fandomsecrets, try asking Dan Savage (http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=13184701). He's a gay, sex advice columnist, and he talks about some of the things you've mentioned. If nothing else, he can probably point you in a good direction. Even just reading through the archives (http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?archives=all) might help. (I can't see the option on the website, but in the smartphone app there is an option to search by category, like "abuse" or "pedophilia". Might be worth looking in to.)

Also, yes. Seek professional therapy.

Ultimately, if you are not harming anyone (including yourself) your coping mechanisms are just that. A way for you to cope. They are neither good nor bad.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-31 10:54 am (UTC)(link)
You can't be serious. That man is horrible, and should definitely not be trusted with advice for something like this.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-31 01:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope you're not implying that OP's gay just because he was raped by a man. OP could be gay, and that would be more than okay, but being raped by someone of the same sex does not automatically make you gay.