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fandomsecrets2012-03-30 06:36 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-03-30 06:36 pm
[ SECRET POST #1914 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1914 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
12. [SPOILERS for ASOIAF/Game of Thrones]
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13. [SPOILERS for Honey and Clover]
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14. [SPOILERS for The Fault in Our Stars]
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15. [SPOILERS for 9 Hours, 9 Persons, 9 Doors]
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16. [SPOILERS for The Hunger Games]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
18. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse]
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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]
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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, child abuse, and shotacon]
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21. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest]
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22. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #273.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - hit/ship/spiration ], [ 1 can't unsee it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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I'm so, so sickened beyond words on your behalf. I'm so sorry that happened to you.
That being said, you should absolutely NOT feel guilty for this. You are NOT condoning or supporting pedophilia, rape or child abuse by doing this.
I don't know if this is going to make you feel any better, but.. I was also abused as a child and I find sometimes sometimes mimicking the abusive aspects of that relationship in my now healthy, adult relationships, and I think it's just my way of reassuring myself that I'm safe now and that not everybody will treat me like how I was treated by my abuser as a child. Would you tell me that I'm condoning or supporting child abuse? I'm betting you wouldn't, and it's true, I'm not: and that doesn't mean it's true for you.
I don't feel like you are supporting inappropriate relationships and I'm 100% sure that all of the commenters above me feel the same way.
Again, I'm really sorry for what you've been through, and I hope that you can manage to find some personal peace. There are a lot of groups on LiveJournal that support people with those types of issues, if you feel uncomfortable discussing this with a therapist IRL.