[ SECRET POST #1914 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1914 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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12. [SPOILERS for ASOIAF/Game of Thrones]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse]

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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, child abuse, and shotacon]



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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I don't understand this attitude that people, especially men, who can't control themselves in anger should get a pass. If you cannot control yourself around your romantic partner, the person with whom you are supposed to be most vulnerable and the person you can hurt the most in the world, then seriously, gtfo.

I "tolerated" my ex-husband's outbursts. I forgave him for punching a hole in the drywall. I forgave him for shaking me. I forgave him for putting a six inch gash in my leg with a box cutter during an argument (and forgave him for refusing to take me to the hospital, necessitating me having to stitch it my damn self). Because he didn't mean it. He was just angry. These things don't escalate, right? When he put a dent in the steel door of our apartment where my head had been two second prior, I left. Should I have forgiven him that, too? Because he just couldn't control his anger, and everyone has outbursts, right?

People who shake and scream at their partner when they're angry have anger management issues. And unless they're in therapy for it, they don't get a motherfucking pass just because "everyone gets angry." They're starting down the road where anger gets physical, especially when they're angry at their romantic partner, when it's his or her fault, and that road often ends in the hospital or the morgue.

So no, I don't think it's too high of a fucking standard to ask that people control their anger around their partners and not get physical about it. If that makes 90% of the population a monster, then so be it. Rise to my standard. I'm not lowering myself to yours.

[(Anonymous)]

omjc, quit inserting yourself into a fictional show where the circumstances are completely different than yours. so fucking annoying.

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But seriously, I dare anyone to say they've never done anything wrong and hurtful in the heat of the moment. Hell, I doubt many people here can honestly say they've never hit, pushed, or shaken anyone in anger before. People lose control. People fuck up. People do things in the heat of the moment that they wish they could take back. It happens. It's not something black-and-white.

Miss that part, much? Or are personal experiences and baggage only okay when it's on the side of things you like?