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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-04-10 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #1925 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1925 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Yeah, this is kind of my point of view on this... I'm avoiding sex with a man because I know I'm not ready for a baby or even a pregnancy. It's not because I'm repressed or a prude (well, maybe a bit of a prude, but not that much), it's because the consequences are not worth it.

If people want to have sex, that's their choice, but they need to be able to deal with the consequences. Expecting to have consequence free sex is irresponsible at best and delusional and over-entitled at worse.

It's like having a pet: great for you if you have a pet, but you need to have some emergency funds set aside for it. If not, it's your right to have a pet and I'm not taking that away from you, but you shouldn't.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
what if someone takes your choice away from you and rapes you?

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
Previous anon already made it clear they were not referring to rape.

Personally, I don't know what I'd do in rape (honestly I would at least look into adoption), but I'd still avoid sex because I don't want to get pregnant, and know I can't handle that.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:47 am (UTC)(link)
I'm avoiding sex with a man because I know I'm not ready for a baby or even a pregnancy.

I hope your lesbian affair turns out well!

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Unfortunately I'm not sure I'm ready for sex period and there have been very few women I've been attracted to (not that many men either, but more men than women). However, yeah, I'd sooner decide I was ready to have sex with any given female partner than any given male partner because no pregnancy risk is definitely a good thing.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
you old romantic, you!

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
There are always STDs to worry about.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
This is true, but I imagine also more difficult to transfer from female to female. Also, while it's not 100% safe sex, it's still probably safer than sex with someone who could get me pregnant.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 04:03 am (UTC)(link)
Protip: Neither the herp, AIDS, gonorrhea nor chlamydia (to name but a few) care about what sex you and your partner are. They're just as transmittable in gay sex as they are in hetero sex. Not trying to scare you off or anything, but that's a faulty assumption you're working under.