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⌈ Secret Post #1930 ⌋

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Secretly recording people is creepy. Secretly recording people during sex is extra creepy. Secretly recording people having sex and then quoting them is super extra creepy.

yes this.

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(Anonymous) - 2012-04-15 21:43 (UTC) - Expand

Agreed.

I'm just sorta glad someone's using real life sex-stuff as the basis for their porn and not whatever they saw in a bad anime or a 14-year-old's porn fanfiction story. There is a bit of dishonesty to it, though. Why don't you broach the subject like: "you know, ever since we've been having sex, my porn writing has gotten way better," and see if he's flattered.

I hope he does find out, because that's really shitty and he needs to know how you're violating his trust in you.

That is seriously messed up....... if I was your bf and found out you were doing that, I'd not only dump you but want to move far away and change my name just so you couldn't find me. Fucking creepy.

You sound like a creepy fuck. Hope you get dumped tbh.

That is really, really, really x100 creepy, OP :l

Just... yikes...

I don't think it's creepy, after all, you record when he has sex with you, not with other people. Only why do you need to record it, can't you just remember what he said XDD Anyhow, I see nothing wrong with being inspired by a real-life situation, it's not like you are actually writing about your bf having sex with some dude.

MTE. I don't understand why it's "sooooo creepy" when if OP had just remembered it and then stuck it in fics there wouldn't be a problem. It's not like OP is recording it and then sharing it with everyone online... they're just doing it probably because they have a shitty memory and like the reminder. OP could tell their boyfriend they record them (if only for personal use), but I suspect he'd get embarrassed and would refrain from the dirty talk and/or get self conscious.

I actually found this secret hilarious.

visp.livejournal.com - 2012-04-15 23:18 (UTC) - Expand

No.

He consented to sex, not to being recorded.

Uhhh, if my SO recorded me without my permission during sex and then inserted my words during said act into an incest fic I would be pretty creeped out. I mean, it's fine if you don't give a shit if your partner does that to you but a lot of people would find that pretty weird/disturbing.

do you just not have any idea how the whole "consent" thing works

ok but like

lets say you got laid and didnt know you were being recorded

doesnt even have to be video just audio like it doesnt matter - you did NOT consent to being recorded. and being recorded entails the risk of your experience being broadcast to god knows who

it's a privacy issue and yes it's fucking creepy as shit ok so just shut up

It's creepy as fuck if he doesn't know about it.

It's fine if you use his lines in your fics, but recording someone without their knowledge during sex is what douchebags do. How would you feel if someone recorded you when you're both unwilling and unknowing? Even if it's for personal use, it's still creepy and not cool.
If my gf or bf did that to me, I'd send them packing. Even if I loved them. You don't exploit someone's trust like that.

Why don't you just ask him if you can record him?

Uhh... isn't that illegal? And just plain fucking wrong?

This is terrible. Really fucking terrible. Really, really fucking terrible. I don't know if I'd use the r-word here, but you are taking something he probably assumed was private & personal and you are making it public without his consent. You should not be in a relationship with this guy. You should not be in a relationship with anyone until you learn some basic fucking respect.

How fucking hard is it to say, "I'm trying to learn how to write sex scenes better, could I record us and try to learn from that?" Some people would say no to that, but I think most people wouldn't get mad at a request like that. You wouldn't even have to say the fandom, if it was like your secret shame fandom or whatever. Oh wait that would actually mean involving your boyfriend in the decision-making about the sex you have together, can't have that.

get some help.

Get over yourself.

morvith.livejournal.com - 2012-04-16 12:01 (UTC) - Expand

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(Anonymous) - 2012-04-16 19:22 (UTC) - Expand

Please don't.

The secret recording part. ~~Not judging for the incest shipping because I'm guilty of that too.~~

You have some nerve, dragon milksop.

what the fuck, Nixon?

(Anonymous) - 2012-04-16 19:23 (UTC) - Expand

I think it's a brilliant idea personally. Nothing wrong with taking inspiration from your RL :) Though I think I'd try be honest with my partner and discuss it with him and see what he thought about it...

He may be glad that you get off to it so much. :D