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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-02 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #1947 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1947 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 068 secrets from Secret Submission Post #278.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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[identity profile] dazzledfirestar.livejournal.com 2012-05-03 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I hate to break out the clichés, OP but maybe you just haven't met the right kind of person for you yet. My husband and I are both in fandom (with minimal crossover but still...) and stuff like what you're describing is our little inside joke. We make jokes about our fictional "I'd tap that/hall pass" lists. We get that it's fantasy and that saying "Character X is really attractive/sexy/WOOOHOO HOT!" doesn't change the fact that we're together, we love each other and we're happy.

And yes, there are people who don't get it's a fantasy and do take it too far, but just because you met someone through fandom doesn't mean they're automatically that extreme.