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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-09 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #1954 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1954 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 040 secrets from Secret Submission Post #279.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-10 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
I agree, it's really hard. I've been in one fandom for six years, and while I'm not what I'd consider a BNF I've been around long enough that a lot of people know who I am, and it doesn't happen that I friend without getting friended back.

Now I'm playing in a new fandom, and the people are really nice, but it's baffling. It's a smallish fandom, and the BNFs such as they are have been nice to me but they won't friend me back. I'm clearly an active LJ member. I post fic they like. I comment on their fic and reply to their comments on mine. I occasionally comment on a non-fic post on their journal. I've written fic for them in comment-fic memes and such. What more do I have to do? I feel like a loser having them friended and not getting friended back.