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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-13 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #1958 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1958 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 104 secrets from Secret Submission Post #280.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-14 09:47 am (UTC)(link)
No sneakers with jeans? Kindly fuck off out of my way in your useless ballet flats, I've got shit to do and places to go and feet to coddle while I'm getting there.

Amy's style is comfy and feminine and approachable with an appreciation for colors and nice textures. If OP is happy in her clothes then they should be proud of themselves. If they aren't, they should feel free to mix it up and change however they want. If that means MORE frills and bows and typography and pattern mixing then they should GO for it. If it means an older hair style that they like then they should roll with it. If it means glasses that fit their face and help them to see, even if it's not on-trend, then they should choose them.

I just REALLY fucking hate it when people assume that there's only one way to look "better". Fuck that. If you want to express your personality through your style choices then you should feel able to do it however you please. If that means slapping your plaids together with your polkadots or if that means wearing menswear on a body with feminine curves or wearing flowy peasant tops on your male torso with beefy shoulders then you should be able to, without incurring the judgment and bullshit of people who assume they know what "better" is.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-14 06:57 pm (UTC)(link)
No sneakers with jeans? Kindly fuck off out of my way in your useless ballet flats, I've got shit to do and places to go and feet to coddle while I'm getting there.

Fuck yeah.

I have people (friends and colleagues) who keep on about how I should invest in girly ballet shoes given than I point blank refuse to wear heels. I can't seem to get anyone to understand that I *walk* places. I need good comfy supportive shoes and to hell with "they're ugly or masculine or too casual".

(Anonymous) 2012-05-15 04:54 pm (UTC)(link)
ew, i didn't say ballet flats. no. perhaps "sneakers" is lost a bit in translation, what i mean no joggers/running shoes/im going to the gym in these white thick sneakers with jeans ffs. it's revolting.

i knew my comment would piss someone off, that's why i went anon. and you can talk high mindedly all you want about being able to wear what you want and not "incurring the judgement and bullshit" of other people, but it aint worth shit cause you know, and i know, 90% of the western world is gonna judge you soon as you walk into a room on how you look and a lot of that is your clothes.

now, i detected some uncertainty in the OPs secret. i mean, she is looking at how someone on tv has been dressed to deliberately look like someone with no social skills/nerdy/awkward and she seems concerned. IF she was concerned and WANTED to, i wanted to give some pointers. that's why i said "maybe you don't care to, but if you do"... she can take it or leave it.