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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-14 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #1959 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1959 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-05-15 04:32 am (UTC)(link)
I wish I knew what to tell you, OP. I grew up with an emotionally abusive mother and I had to physically move away in order for things to start getting any better, but I know that isn't always possible with family. Especially if you're younger.
Everybody's already given really good advice, so I just wanted to say that even though people might be more likely to shrug it off verbal and emotional abuse is still abuse and you don't deserve to be treated that way.

Though if I could suggest a good book? It's called Boundaries and while it is a Christian book (there are mentions of religion and there's a full chapter dealing with God) there's a lot of really good general information that's relevant to everybody. It certainly can't fix a bad relationship, but it did give me a better idea of what was going on with my mother and I.
(http://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-When-Take-Control-Your/dp/0310585902/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1337055334&sr=8-1)