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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-16 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #1961 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1961 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 043 secrets from Secret Submission Post #280.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
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(Anonymous) 2012-05-16 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay, from your secret I'm not sure I understand the exact problem. Do you just dislike public displays of affection? That's just fine. But since you mention you imagine people's reactions if you did, maybe you would like to but don't feel comfortable? In that case, I'm sorry you live in a place where you feel so threatened. But maybe it's a little in your head? I know I felt anxious about doing some things in public with a girl and then it turned out nothing much happened. Are you sure there isn't a single place in your city where you couldn't kiss someone of your gender and be fine? Again, I don't know where you live, but many times we expect people to freak out and they don't.

Now, you mention teasing from other characters in fic. If you mean playful teasing by friends and you aren't comfortable with being open in front of your friends, then I'm just really sorry you feel a need to hide even from the people closest to you. I hope you can overcome this or maybe find some better friends.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-17 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, dear. Never say something might just be in someone's head, fellow anon. It brings out the crazy like worms in a rainstorm.