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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-18 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #1963 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1963 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2012-05-18 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
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(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
jesus christ, anon

i'm so sorry your mom had to go thru that, i can't even imagine

i hope she and you are doing better

(Anonymous) 2012-05-19 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
OP here. Thanks <3 My mom actually grew up very well, devoting her early-career to helping troubled teens and becoming very close with her parents in adulthood. I guess forgiveness prevails. And I'm using my law degree to advocate for abused and neglected children, chiefly influenced by my desire to help other kids since I can never actually go back in time to be there for her. So at least a lot of good has come out of something awful.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-19 06:00 pm (UTC)(link)
(not original thread owner)
:)
I'm so glad about everything that happened since. Why did her father throw her out the window in the first place?

(Anonymous) 2012-05-20 06:20 am (UTC)(link)
OP again. I don't remember the particulars of the reason in this instance. Usually [the less egregious instances - as this was by far the most severe - though I certainly don't mean to minimize any sort of physical abuse] were due to things like not having her room clean or getting in trouble at school. ...I think this one may have had something to do with her wanting to watch the Beatles though.

Of course, going deeper than that, you could say the true why was that my grandfather had also been abused, and probably his father before him. So, while not a justification, it was certainly a root.

[identity profile] rabidsamfan.livejournal.com 2012-05-18 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
That would be worth time travel. It really would.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh anon.
*hugs*
This gave me chills tbh.
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[personal profile] sabotabby 2012-05-18 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Fuck, anon. I'm so sorry.

[identity profile] citrinesunset.livejournal.com 2012-05-18 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear that your mother went through that.

And I think that's a very worthy thing to want to use time travel for.

[identity profile] writerserenyty.livejournal.com 2012-05-19 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my goodness, that's awful that your mom had to deal with that :( You sound like a good daughter/son.

[identity profile] canadian-kazz.livejournal.com 2012-05-19 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sure the Doctor would be glad to help you and your mom.

[identity profile] alizara.livejournal.com 2012-05-19 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
I am SO sorry your mother went through that, anon. But this is a beautiful sentiment and the best theoretical use of timetravel ever.

[identity profile] discord.livejournal.com 2012-05-19 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
You're a good person, anon.
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[identity profile] murderershair.livejournal.com 2012-05-19 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
as somebody whose parents were also abused
I teared up a bit OP

[identity profile] mollywobbles867.livejournal.com 2012-05-19 04:25 am (UTC)(link)
That is so sweet and noble of you. Your mother is lucky to have you.

[identity profile] ms-manic.livejournal.com 2012-05-19 10:01 am (UTC)(link)
That's lovely of you to wish that OP. Have you told your mother this? I bet she'd be really touched x

(Anonymous) 2012-05-19 03:12 pm (UTC)(link)
OP here. I haven't told my mother this, but I'm using my law degree to advocate for abused and neglected children - so I'm sure she knows how much her story has inspired me to want to help (others, since alas, I don't have the requisite timetravel abilities to go back and help her).

(Anonymous) 2012-05-19 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
That's awesome. I'd rather walk on broken glass than do something like that for my mother. I know that's horrible but these days being around her can make me so anxious and uncomfortable that I get physically sick. I'd guess there was a major difference in how they dealt with their abuse, though.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-10 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
Reading this made me realize that I would want to go back and be there for my mom the night my dad tried to kill himself, if only so I could reassure her that he'd wake up and everything would get better, because I wouldn't exist if it hadn't.