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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-22 07:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #1967 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1967 ⌋

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[identity profile] lunabee34.livejournal.com 2012-05-23 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
I completely agree with what the two of you have said in this thread.

I am in a similar RL situation, and one of the hardest things I've ever had to do is bite my tongue, and put my head down, and go on about business. And what's lovely is that slowly all the people around me are starting to see how disingenuous this person is and how untrustworthy ze is without any input on my part. If I go around talking about hir, even with the best attentions, I risk being accused of sowing discord or lying myself. It takes a long time sometimes, but letting life itself mete out justice can be really satisfying. And I truly believe that at some point in every person's life, ze gets back what ze's sowed.

*hugs*

[identity profile] imati-lau.livejournal.com 2012-05-23 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you're in that situation right now.

I lived an identical situation last year, and having to shut my mouth and pretend anything was wrong even if the whole thing was eating me inside was one of the hardest things I have done in my life. But, yes, as you said, people started noticing in time, and yes, she got back every single hellish moment that she made all the people involved go through. I can't deny it was awesome in a Schadenfraude sort of way.

I hope you get out of that situation soon enough, and I wish you the best of lucks! *hugs back*

(Anonymous) 2012-05-23 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Thank you so much. It really helps hearing that.

I know you're not supposed to want revenge, but it's hard not to want it, and somehow it's so much sweeter when you get it without even trying for it. Karma is awesome.

[identity profile] imati-lau.livejournal.com 2012-05-23 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
No problem. :)

I know you're not supposed to want revenge, but it's hard not to want it

Oh, yes. Been there, done that. It's almost impossible not to desire for it if the person is putting you through living hell; I admit one of the things that I was more angry about the whole situation was that she made me WANT to get revenge, even if normally I try to be a good person with the people around me.

Karma will get her. Although you have to keep in mind, that even if she will pay for everything she has done, it is also possible that you don't get to see it happen, and you have to accept that possibility. But it is inevitable that she will reap what she sowed.
Edited 2012-05-23 02:46 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2012-05-23 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
Living well is the best possible revenge. May you live VERY well. ;)

(Anonymous) 2012-05-23 07:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a problem like that at work. Made a bit easier by the fact that the person is disliked by a few colleagues, however they are very popular with management. (sucking up to management is part of the reason why they aren't liked by colleagues) Problem is, they hate me because I got a promotion a few years ago and am now senior, although don't manage them. This person has gone behind my back and created all kinds of problems for me, often I've found out after people have left and they felt safe to tell me.

Anyhow what I wanted to say is I do spend a lot of time thinking about revenge, but not violent or anything, just the person getting found out, preferably arrested by the police and imprisoned. (I know it's a bit of a stretch in terms of there not being laws against lying and causing trouble for work colleagues, but it's a dream..)