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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-22 07:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #1967 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1967 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 051 secrets from Secret Submission Post #281.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] otakugal15.livejournal.com 2012-05-23 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
Because it's jarring?

It's not necessarily a bad thing.

My bf (in my example) is a big guy and has a gut. If he suddenly wanted me to picture him as a skinny as fuck, almost anorexic, bishi guy for an RP scenario, it'd throw me for a loop, too. It'd weird me out. Because I just don't like that image. I like him as is.

i dunno how he'd react if I did the same thing, but me as a skinny anime girl or a skinny bishi uke boy, I'd like to think he'd be a little weirded out as well. Because it's not me and he likes my body as is. Chubbiness and all.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-23 05:47 am (UTC)(link)
I just feel that the specificity is demeaning. You could have the same secret posted with more respect by phrasing it as you did, that they were bigger, and that you weren't into it and that you like them as they are.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-23 06:00 am (UTC)(link)
They mentioned her differing hair color and height, too. And, you know, genitals.

[identity profile] otakugal15.livejournal.com 2012-05-23 01:23 pm (UTC)(link)
This. Everyone is so stuck on the weight, but other things were mentioned as well.